Have you ever wanted to do something only to second guess yourself? Have you ever wondered what you are capable of doing? Have you ever wondered what prevents you from doing what you truly desire to do? If so this is the book for you. Ruth Soukup does an excellent job of breaking down the archetypes that keep us paralyzed in fear and then gives strategies and suggestions for overcoming those fears.
The first section of the book dives deep into the Seven Archetypes which are: the Procrastinator, The Rule Follower, The People Pleaser, The Outcast, The Self-Doubter, The Excuse Maker, and The Pessimist. She provides both the strengths and weaknesses of each type along with suggested careers for each type.
After helping the reader understand their archetype, she then provides 7 tools and strategies for overcoming your fears and stepping out of your comfort zone. Too many of us get stuck because we are too paralyzed by fear to walk out in faith and challenge the status quo. The second half of this book does an amazing job of helping the reader see how to start moving and face our fears head-on.
She writes in an engaging manner that makes you feel as if you were actually sitting down having a conversation with her. This book will help you go from fear to faith and go for the “Big” dreams and desires of your heart. So if you are looking for a book to inspire, motivate, encourage you and more, check out this book for yourself.
I know this book encouraged me to think about who I am, what I am afraid of and what I want from life. With a husband who is about 3 years away from retirement, I have big dreams for our future that I want to see come to life. This book is encouraging me to step out in faith and start working towards the life I want.
Today I would like to share a guest post from the authors of the book Shiny Things, which I was privileged to be on the book launch team for.
WHO’S THE BOSS
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I sat contentedly, tucked back into the restaurant booth—the perfect spot for a romantic date with my husband with just enough visibility to people watch (one of my favorite pastimes). Whereas the words between us seem to bounce back-and-forth like a Ping-Pong game, the table across from us was rather quiet. 10 people sat within inches of one another, heads bowed and eyes glued to the devices in front of them. The adults held phones while the children were magnetized to various digital screens. Not a word was spoken. We watched in amazement as the waitress came and did her best to take drink orders. The family didn’t even look up. Grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, and 2 children, one by one, they mumbled their selection as the server walked around the table. Meal ordering was no different. I couldn’t stop staring, so amazed at the lack of conversation. Didn’t they know they were completely missing out on precious time together?! And what about the rudeness in ignoring the waitstaff?
I think we can all agree that sometimes it’s easier to stare at a screen than to wade through awkward conversation. Avoiding confrontation, pushing off uncomfortable social situations, and sidestepping the possibility of a raw subject rearing its ugly head and offending someone.
But beyond actual phone conversations, our cellphones sure seem to boss us around an awful lot, causing us to feel like we are at the beck and call of everything and everyone. Like we have to respond to incoming texts as soon as they pop up on our screens. Obligated to check our social media accounts 50 billion times a day because someone might have commented on our fabulous photo that we posted 15 minutes ago.
I’ll be the first to admit that I have willingly become a slave to my apps, checking my Facebook and Instagram accounts like it’s my job. Which it’s totally not. (Hence the reason I decided to take the Facebook app completely off my phone. Now I only use it on my laptop. Which for me, means I use it a whole lot less. And guess what? I don’t feel like I missing much. Less politics and drama = one happy mama. Less scrolling and more time with my people. Win win. I’m not saying you have to do this, but it’s worked well for me.)
It feels like the world is waiting for us. For us to engage and comment and post and document our day for all the world to see.
So how do we utilize these amazing little rectangular wonders of technology? Is it possible to find ways to communicate and interact with one another in a way that draws us closer to God and His people rather than drawing us away?
This is the quandary we face. We’ve been given a gift of connection. But we’re unsure how to be good stewards of it.
Maybe it’s time we showed our phones who’s boss.
– Setting them aside more often.
– Putting them in another room so we can spend intentional time with our people.
– Limiting the amount of times we check email and social media throughout the day.
– Setting a timer for when we’re on social media or doing online searches.
– Turning our ringers off more (unless your best friend going into labor, or the fire alarms at your house are going off and the babysitter is calling).
– Focusing our eyes and our attention on our most important people, because our actions (and our lack of words) speak loudly.
Our people are watching … and waiting for us to get off our devices.
Our callings are waiting … ready for us to unswervingly pursue the passions God has put on our hearts.
The Savior of our soul is waiting … longing for us to wholeheartedly be in relationship with Him. The kind of loving friendship that wants to share quality time all throughout the day. Listening. Learning. Communicating. Because that’s what love looks like.
Maybe it’s time we showed our phones who’s really in charge.
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This Mother’s Day week, May 7 & 9 at 7:00pm., you and your friends can enjoy a night of laughter and truth as the only top-selling female comedian, Chonda Pierce, can deliver. Chonda will make you laugh and think as she boldly proclaims the truth of the Gospel to a hurting world. Chonda takes a journey into the hearts of the faithful as she engages some of the boldest believers in America. Mike Huckabee, Danny Gokey, the Benham Brothers, and others tell their stories of speaking truth to our culture…no matter the consequences. Don’t forget to bring your moms, grandmas and every mother in your church for a night to remember!
Only Chonda can communicate deep and meaningful truth and make you laugh at the same time. Chonda is unchained, unrestrained and UNASHAMED!
As I started watching this movie, I have to say I was glad I was alone. Initially, I had thought about having my husband watch with me, but then I decided I wanted this to be something I watched alone. Interspersed with clips of her comedian routine, she talks with some incredible Christians including Mike Huckabee and then Benham Brothers along with Danny Gokey.
Chonda Pierce definitely has the heart for those who are hurting and it comes through her work. The other thing that stands out in this movie is that she is unashamedly Christian. When she visits the Benham Brothers, I learned something I did not know previously, which was their minor league baseball foray. But I did know they were unapologetically and unashamedly Christian. I also had to chuckle when Chonda Pierce turned the interviewing tables on Mike Huckabee and even sat in his chair.
In the clips from her comedy routine, she talks directly to the women in the audience. Although there are some men present she makes it clear that she is talking to women. With her personal experience of being a widow who is trying to get back out into the dating world, she truly made me laugh and shake my head in agreement at times.
The Christians in this show demonstrate the heart and love of Christ through their words and actions. I will say I feel this show would best be enjoyed with a bunch of your favorite women and some good snacks to go along with the show. Truly, this is a movie that will make you laugh and understand that as Christians we need to be unashamed of our faith.